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Build the right business by learning WHO you were born to be.
Hard work is just, hard work
I am a failure! I am not ashamed to admit it. I have tried so many times to build a business and ended up falling flat on my face. In fact, it goes much deeper than failing as a business owner, I have failed as a person. I have spent YEARS trying live my life as someone else, but I didn’t realize it. Honestly, I didn’t even understand that I was born to be someone else, until recently. Until you understand WHO you were meant to be, you will never understand how to create the right business or even work in the right job.
First, let me start by saying, I am the hardest working person I know. Every job that I have taken, I will give a thousand percent of myself. Over the years working hard and hustling have sometimes given me a slight advantage, but honestly I never saw the real fruits of my labor. In the end, I just ended up exhausted and burned out regardless if it was for building my business or working for someone else.
Hamster on a wheel
Looking back, there have only been a handful of jobs that I really enjoyed, but we will circle back to this! It seemed like no matter who I worked for or whatever type of business I tried to build, it just didn’t work out despite the fact I worked my A$$ off! Even if the business seemed to be somewhere in my scope of passion, it always fell flat. My gut told me I needed to be leading and influencing but every time I would try, I would end up stuck in the weeds of the day to day tasks required to get the job done and end up feeling like a hamster on a wheel. Can you relate???
Let’s fast forward to 2020. I once again tried to build a business, but this time, I actually found success. I found my flow – sometimes it seemed like the Universe was just clearing a path for me until I hit the ultimate road block. I had to go back to my day job. Now here I am trying to build my side business working a full time job, working ridiculous hours and NOTHING and I MEAN NOTHING is working anymore. Everything was a struggle again, I was exhausted, burned out and back on my hamster wheel again.
A shift in focus
At the beginning of the year, I decided to shift my own business despite the fact I felt like I was still destined for failure. For some reason, I continued to be drawn back to coaching. I had already found NLP Training and LOVED IT, I just needed one more piece to my puzzle. After finding NLP, I spent a few weeks investigating different personality assessments and tools that I might be able to utilize to help others in my coaching business along with .
Personality Assessments and personal development have been the ONE thing I have done in my career that I loved. I used to do personal development coaching, specifically with personality assessments. It was absolutely my JAM! When people were able to experience me in this space, it was magical, but careers being careers, I made the mistake to try to move up the corporate ladder, left the personal development behind and began another journey of hamster on the wheel.
A chance encounter
In 2020 I had joined a wonderful mentoring community, but I didn’t often attend the Monday night meetings due to exhaustion from my day job. I happened to read that we would be learning about Human Design in our next meeting and for some reason, I just felt like it needed to be heard so I made the space to join the meeting. As I listened to the presentation about the Projector (my type) I said out loud this does not sound at ALL like me. This CAN’T be right! Regardless, I was intrigued.
After the meeting, even though I felt like Human Design might be completely bogus, I kept thinking about it. I have learned when I can’t stop thinking about something, I just go with it so I messaged the person that delivered the training and spent way more money than I wanted to spend on a personal reading because I just had a feeling this was something I needed to hear.
I was designed for this job
As we talked about the specifics of MY design, I realized that I had been trying to live my life like 70% of the population instead of how I was designed to live. Years and Years of working for corporate America had taught me what was expected of me, not what was right for me. Now I finally understood why I was always exhausted, why I could SEE people so well and why I had this internal passion to influence and coach other people, I was designed to it!
I also understand why nothing was working for me. Not only was I vibrating at a low energy state because of the bitterness and frustration, I was doing everything wrong – I was doing everything the way someone else SHOULD be operating. I was completely overwhelmed by what I SHOULD be doing, I never took the time to understand what I was designed to do.
Get ready to plug into the Projector
The more I have taken the time to get to know the REAL me, the more “I” actually make sense. I just never could figure out the why’s that Human Design has opened me to see. I was 100% acting like a Manifesting Generator, but only because that is what the world really expected me to be! I had learned to be a doer – the exact opposite of what I was designed to be. This provided me such a clear picture to why I was always exhausted and stuck on my hamster wheel!
As a projector, I am here to guide. I see people and I see how they should use their energy. We are magnetic beings, designed to attract attention. We attract the RIGHT people who see and recognize us for the particular gifts we carry. As a result, they invite our guidance into their lives. In fulfilling that recognition, we find our signature of success instead of bitterness. Oh and did I mention I should be doing this in less than four hours a day?
What now?
I am here to master or create a system and share it with the world – and finally, I have found my complete system and it definitely includes human design! To really coach people, you need to integrate their design with strategies and mindset. I want people to build a business that they are passionate about but in a way that compliments their design.
I have learned by YEARS of experience that if you let them, people will throw you in a box and demand you be successful by doing it one way. If I can save people the struggle that I have experienced, I will be successful. I have always been drawn to helping people and of course my heart belongs to helping dog moms!
Finally, I adjust my own business and life in a way that allows me to really live as a Projector. To really be successful, I have to live outside the lines and not like the other 70% of the population that are Generators. I am so excited about starting on this journey and would love to help you understand YOUR DESIGN! I would LOVE to talk to more about Human Design and the joys of being a dog mom – why don’t you join me!
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